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    How do I get him back

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    Adaeze
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    How do I get him back

    Post by Adaeze on Wed Aug 15, 2012 11:49 pm

    I was in love with this guy and we had a very sweet relationship for two years until last year we started disagreeing on some issues and things started falling apart which later resulted in calling off the relationship. He loved me so much that he was ready to go any lenght for me but I thought he was not up to my standard Since we parted, i had dated two guys only to discover that they were not as good as my ex. None of the had in anywhere near my ex in qualities. Please how can I get back to my ex-boyfriend? I miss him so much. please help me.
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    Re: How do I get him back

    Post by osaz on Wed Aug 15, 2012 11:58 pm

    Humm!, girls and their wahara,
    well, I guess u need to go through this link and read up this article
    "Discover how to get your ex boyfriend back when he is already seeing a new girl"

    I hope it will help u. goodluck
    http://www.streetarticles.com/reconnecting/does-he-love-her-more-than-me-how-to-attract-back-your-ex-when-he-has-a-new-girlfriend
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    Re: How do I get him back

    Post by BenGas on Thu Aug 16, 2012 8:35 am

    It's understandable for you to feel hurt and a little depresses about it, but don't beat yourself up. wait a minute, are you feeling jealous over the girl your ex left you for? This is a natural and painful feeling to go through after a breakup. Here are three tips that can help you overcome this jealousy and move on with your life.

    1. Picture them fighting and breaking up.

    Know that this will inevitably happen, because:

    a) she's a rebound b) he might be dating her to MAKE you jealous c) if his relationship with you didn't work out, it won't with her.

    Many people, especially ones who are perpetual "dumpers" or heartbreakers, have something called Grass is Greener Syndrome. They constantly think that getting a new girlfriend or boyfriend will help them appease some need inside them.

    Your ex probably figured he'd find something in the new girl that he didn't find in you. When he realizes he won't, they'll break up.

    2. Accept that it's his problem, not yours.

    If he dumped you for another girl, that's an issue with him. The other girl may be giving him admiration and appreciation he felt was lacking from you, but callously breaking your heart without giving you reasons for it isn't really acceptable behavior. It's just commonly accepted now because so many people do it.

    But it hurts many people, and when you feel this pain, you have to know that it's something in him that's lacking - not you. You were the one who stayed faithful to the end.

    3. See this time as a gift
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    Try to see your breakup in a positive light: now you've got a chance to be free and single again, and meet a guy who will truly appreciate you.

    If you start pursuing your hobbies again, hanging out with your friends, and trying to reframe the breakup in a positive light, you'll meet new guys very quickly. Many of them will be very interested in getting to know you; the more you put yourself out there, the better you'll feel.

    Every new guy you meet, even if you don't date, is a success. You're overcoming the fear of rejection that your ex instilled in you. Maybe he rejected you, but it's his loss.


    If you truly miss your ex and you want another chance with him, that's also a possibility. What you have to do now is to seize this time to make the most of yourself. Be happy. Hang out with friends. Enjoy life.
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    Re: How do I get him back

    Post by Adaeze on Thu Aug 16, 2012 8:40 am

    Thank you Big Ben and Osaz. what a great advice!
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    Re: How do I get him back

    Post by yemi on Tue May 07, 2013 12:10 pm

    hmmm! i'm learning
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    Re: How do I get him back

    Post by De Gud on Tue May 07, 2013 12:27 pm

    yemi wrote:hmmm! i'm learning
    hmmmm
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    Re: How do I get him back

    Post by TCODED on Tue May 07, 2013 7:01 pm

    INTERESTING!
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    Re: How do I get him back

    Post by fine_gurl on Wed May 08, 2013 10:38 am

    oh! I see. i must get my man back
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    Re: How do I get him back

    Post by De Gud on Wed May 08, 2013 10:49 am

    Still on duty!










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